Once upon a time there was a young princess. She was told
by all those that she knew that she was beautiful and she was loved by all the
people in the land. Her father told her “you must remember who you are no
matter what happens to you during your life.” For some time the girl did
remember who she was but then she began to grow up.
The girl grew away from her father. She started to dress
in unflattering ways like the popular girls in the kingdom. She began to
disobey her parents. The princess took her eyes off of her Father.
One night she found herself in an alley. Her dress was
tattered, she was sick, and there was no one there to help her. All of her
friends had abandoned her. The princess realized that she had forgotten who she
was. She ran home. Then she burst into the throne room where her parents
waited, sick with worry. The princess hugged her parents and told them she was
sorry.
She began to read her Bible more. The princess had a
hunger for learning about her Father like no other in the kingdom. She had put
her eyes back on the father. The princess also began to pray that her
relationship with her Father would grow. And, that her future prince would keep
his eyes on the father.
In another kingdom there was a prince. He had thrown many
parties, invited many women, and had wine there. He was not making good
decisions. The prince loved the life of a bachelor. Until, one day, his parents
decided to cut him off. For the good of their son and the kingdom they kicked
him out of the castle.
The prince could not understand why his parents would
disown him. He asked his friends to help him. But, his friends wanted nothing
to do with him. He joined a band of miscreants and began to lie, cheat, and
steal. This went on for 2 years until one day he too woke up in an alley all
alone. The prince felt a tug on his heart that day. He realized that he had
forgotten who he was.
The prince went home and begged for his parents’
forgiveness. His parents did forgive him. And, the prince began to read his
Bible. His relationship with the Father began to grow. His eyes were back on
the Father.
The Father began to move the princess and the prince
together. One day, while at a royal ball, the prince and the princess met. Both
of them had gone through a lot, and they had been waiting a long time to meet
each other. They began courting. And, one day the prince asked the princess to
marry him. The princess agreed and they lived happily ever after.
Obviously, this is a fictitious story. But, the message
behind it rings true. In order for a relationship to work it cannot be just a
relationship between husband and wife. It must be a love triangle made up of
husband, wife, and Jesus.
In this story the princess and the prince were not
anywhere close to meeting one another until they fixed their eyes on the
Father. Before, one can meet their significant other he/she must have a
relationship with God. Think about it: when you were in middle school or high
school what were you like? If you would have met your spouse then, would you
have gotten together? More than likely you would not have gotten together
because you still needed to grow.
The point of this story is to say that, if you are still
waiting to meet your spouse you need to keep your eyes fixed on God. If you are
not growing in him then God will not move you toward your spouse. And, if your
spouse’s eyes are not fixed on God then you still will not meet. Thus, you must
also pray that your spouse will fix his/her eyes on God.
If you are married or with someone, you do not get out of
this either. You need to continue to grow in God. It is just that now you can
grow with each other. You should be holding one another accountable and should
still have your love triangle with Jesus.
So, do you have your eyes fixed on the Father? If you do
not, what are you going to do in order to fix your eyes on the Father again?
Hebrews 12:2, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, Colossians 3:14